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I just finished up reading Tariq Nasheed’s book, Play or Be Played and of the many drops of knowledge found in the book, a particular theory stuck out to me, how some females look to gain a man’s attention, while others look for a man’s appreciation. That’s quite a powerful statement in and of itself and as I look at my past relationships with women and why I’m single now, I can see how it applies to my dating choices. The aforementioned theory also directly ties into the logic that women fall into one of two categories for a man; potential wifey/girlfriend or potential fuck buddy, with the difference being in whether the woman is looking for short term satisfaction/attention or long term appreciation. In this most recent entry to the Brilliantbrown Guide for Dating, I will outline the particular difference between a potential girlfriend and a potential wifey and what role appreciation and attention play into both categories.
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